Dementia Darnings

The Dementia Darnings developed from my mother’s interest and joy in looking through family photo albums. She was diagnosed with dementia in 2011 and as my role as carer increased it seemed only possible to continue my art practice by making her and our situation the subject of my work.  

Working initially from old photos squared up, I developed the images in a way similar to making a cross hatched drawing, by sewing through fine bobinette netting stretched over a canvas. I have a method of working whereby I mask off areas of canvas and photo, and turn everything sideways or upside down. This technique allows me to disassociate with the image, not become distracted by the whole. I can work into areas focusing on colour and tone, form and shape.

It is a slow, meditative process. Each one can take up to four months to complete. 

The series grew as my mother went into a nursing home. As I relinquished her care, I became an observer. I began to separate each length of wool into individual strands.

This finer yarn conveyed her gentle frailty.  She died peacefully in 2015. 

The Dementia Darnings have travelled extensively in the U.K. and Europe, a selection reached China in 2018.

MATERIAL
Wools sewn into fine netting stretched over canvas. All 16 portraits have now been liberated from the canvas and suspend freely on acrylic hangings.

SIZE
130cm x 90cm. (Two are 90cm x 130cm).

  • Your Darnings to me are like a picture of love. They reflect the gaze I think we all want to feel on us - accepting, not demanding, neither clinging hold of nor rejecting. I have often thought that in the process of dying that is what I want more than anything, but it goes just as much for living as well.

    Phil White

  • Never have I been so moved by a work of art as by these wonderful images of your mother. The great love which must have inspired you is matched by the brilliance of the conception and execution. It is a privilege to have seen them. Thank you.

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  • This exhibition stirs up so much for me as a 57 year old with my 87 year old mum in a dementia care home - we are all a work in progress. Delicate, resourceful, resilient, the essence of being human - captured in these Darnings.

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  • Riveting and profoundly moving. The Dementia Darnings are so strong that one forgets the actual skill and techniques used and can just be overwhelmed with awareness of life lived and a person loved.

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  • It just bowls me over! The portraits are an amazing, emotional moving exhibition. I was really moved in a positive way having lost my mum to dementia.

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  • I am a little lost for words as it is years since I have seen such quality (including emotional quality) of work. Beautiful, moving and please find them a space where more people can see the beauty you have created.

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  • My mother passed away last December after having suffered terribly from Lewy Body dementia for 3 years. It was a dreadful time and I learnt a lot about the nature of the illness. Your portraits are incredible, not only the making of them, but the expressions too.....they could have been my mum's expressions. I recognise her in them. It was very, very emotional and very, very moving for me. Thank you so much.

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  • So alive! Just some pieces of thread and simple net, an idea and a bit of stitching and suddenly something amazing comes to life. I love the continuity too, of feminine pursuits to a feminist exhibition. Thank you.

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